#SongoftheDay Take a Letter, Maria (R.B. Greaves)

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This song has been stuck in my head for two weeks. No idea how it got there. I probably heard it at the supermarket. That's usually how the songs creep in.

Last night I rewatched The Adventures of Priscilla, Queen of the Desert again. Lo and behold, this song popped up. I felt like an old friend had appeared on screen. 


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See you soon!

Giselle


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