#SongoftheDay High School Confidential (Rough Trade)

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Imagine me as a little queer teen--diminutive in size, but often lectured for being "too loud"--sitting in English class. I'm in my final year of high school.  My teacher is leading a discussion about a tongue-in-cheek Margaret Wente article called "I Want a Wife."

The article is supposed to be funny because she can't have a wife--she's a lady. Men are so lucky because they have these live-in cooks/maids/accountants called wives. If only ladies like Margaret Wente could have wives too, haha!  Wouldn't life be joyous?

I remember feeling irritated and frustrated and confounded for reasons I couldn't yet articulate. Friends was the most popular show in TV, and there'd already been a lesbian wedding in one episode. Was the author of this article not aware that lesbians were a thing? That women could have wives--perhaps not legally, but at least in spirit? Because the basic premise of her article was that they couldn't.  If she took lesbians into account, the title "I Want a Wife" wouldn't be funny, it would just be a statement.

I'll never forget the erasure I felt in that classroom, as everyone discussed the article without touching on any of the thoughts that went flying through my brain.

Did I speak up?

I wish I could tell you.  I honestly don't remember.



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Giselle

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